How to show appreciation for your Domme

A Domme/sub relationship is a beautiful thing. Over my years in the Dominatrix industry, I have had many subs. Most of these were wonderful and would attest that our relationship was so fulfilling for us both since we had a great relationship together. However, some subs have tried to take advantage of my work and so we both ended up let down. To ensure you get the most from your Domme, you need to show her your appreciation!

To really be considered a sub in the first place, you have to show respect to your Domme. Without this, there is no relationship at all, just a loser wasting my time and your money. Once your relationship has started, there are three words that you will need to know, since this should be your most said phrase: “Thank you Mistress”. One of my favorite things to hear is you thanking me, that way I know you are enjoying our fun! 

Trust is hugely important in D/s relationships, and must be established early. Dommes like me who have years of experience in both online and offline Domming are Dommes you can trust! Placing your trust in me from the start is great, and it is something we can develop over time. I am a Mistress, not a monster and all I want is to have a pleasurable time together. Whether it’s trusting me with keys or trusting me with pleasing you, it is so important to place your trust in my decisions. By placing your trust in me, it guarantees an amazing experience.

Reminding me of how much fun you had/are having is amazing! Little messages telling me that you enjoyed our session, enjoyed your time in chastity or enjoyed my teachings are so sexy and I really enjoy getting them! Not every gesture has to be big and bold, small things go a long way in developing our connection in our D/s relationship.

Now for the obvious one - gifting. Gifting your Domme is a huge marker of appreciation and really excites me! Seeing a paying sub finance things like coffee,

Shopping, dinner makes me so pleased and I promise you’ll be rewarded for that.

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- Mistress Alice De Sade